The RIGHT Mindset IS Your KEY to Massive Success

Maybe you've had a few hard knocks like me... or maybe you feel like your childhood wasn't all that bad and are a bit confused about why you seem to struggle in certain areas of your life and business... Here is what I've learned on my own transformational journey, as well as having worked with hundreds of private clients over the past decade+. 

We all have at least one core wound. It is a deep rooted story that shows up in our results. Because it is such an ingrained pattern, we rarely see it with clarity, even though it is constantly showing itself, and our mind is literally telling us the story over and over. 

For me, it was feeling unimportant. I felt the pain of my sad story anytime I failed at achieving a goal, or when felt rejected or unacknowledged by someone - especially my peers. When contemplating those emotional triggers, I'd briefly remember the various times throughout my childhood when I felt neglected, unwanted, or like burden on my parents. But the feelings would pass and the deep work was rarely done at a level that would shift the pattern. 

Where I didn't as clearly see how this deep rooted feeling of being unimportant was showing up in my life and in my business, was how it stopped me from achieving my full potential, and in many cases my biggest goals. I didn't see all the ways I was subconsciously diverting myself from important actions, bold asks, and showing up in a way that would allow me to massively up-level. After all, if someone is unimportant... no one wants to hear what they have to say, right? No matter how talented I was, how valuable my gifts and abilities where, even how much I had helped other people... It was a core wound, a deeply held belief that no one cared about me, I was insignificant, unimportant. 

I could feel it, but I just couldn't see with clarity what was holding me back. 

Let me quickly point out, not only do our deepest hurts stop us from taking certain critical actions, they also put out an energetic frequency - and that comes through in our words, our body language, what we will or will not say or do, and how we self-sabotage the success that we are creating for ourselves. Other people are picking up on this subconsciously and it affects how they feel about us, what they feel compelled or inspired to say or do, and ultimately influence decisions they make regarding us. 

So, in spite of my best intentions... "doing all of the right things"... my results continued to show me just how insignificant and unimportant I really was. Results - aka what we are actually creating in our lives - do not lie. It can be a hard pill to swallow, but this feedback is critical. 

I had overcome so much, and I knew so much, and I had developed mastery in areas that allowed me to help my clients at a truly high level. But I still believed at a deep, nearly unconscious level, that I was unimportant and it was showing up as painfully slow growth in my business. 

As my frustration grew, and all the the really savvy things I was doing to grow my business was not producing the results I knew it should, it put out a very heart felt intention to get clear. Which is when I began to see patterns... 

I started to notice how certain things made me feel. Listening to the sad, but familiar story I was telling myself about why it was happening. Recognizing the meaning I was giving my circumstances. And there it was. The same old story. I didn't matter. I was unimportant. Unwanted. 

That is when I finally had the aha. This was a core wound. And all of these other issues were symptoms of this belief I had about myself. 

I knew from past experience that resolving these deeply held beliefs led to breakthroughs. So, now it was time to get to work and clean up this destructive limiting belief once and for all. 

When we identify our core wounds, we can finally resolve them. If left unresolved, they will not simply go away. Nor can we ignore them or positive talk ourselves out of them. There are processes that we must go through to release and replace them. And when we do, everything begins to shift. 

It is kind of like taking your foot off the the brake. All this time, you've been hitting the accelerator, get a little movement, then subconsciously put your foot on the break. You feel the inner calling to put your foot on that accelerator and go! But that old conditioned pattern (your unintentional safety mechanism) kicks on and keeps you in the same old stuck place. But when you clear the pattern, and create a new program, now you can finally drive to your destination. And the journey is a whole lot smoother when you are not riding the break! 

There is a happy ending to my story, and there is one for you too. You may still be in the part of your story where you are riding the break, but that doesn't have to be the theme of your book. You can create the perfect next chapter, beginning today. Let's take your foot off of the break and get you on the road to the life and business your heart is calling you towards!